Wednesday, April 24, 2013

I Did It My Way... The Wrong Way

Life is often filled with little regrets. Some are generally harmless. For example, I am not proud of the outfit I wore in high school that involved purple pants. Other regrets are a little more significant. For example, that outfit also involved suspenders.

Little regrets can linger in your mind, partnered with the popular refrain: “if only I could go back and do it over...” These regrets are not earth-shattering, but they do serve as a welcome reminder that you are, in fact, capable of making some pretty stupid decisions. For me, one such incident occurred during my stint as a deejay at my college radio station.

I stumbled onto the airwaves through a deft combination of pure luck and dumb luck. My voice was somehow approved for radio broadcast, despite the fact that, to this day, people over the phone call me “ma'am” (I think I passed puberty on a technicality.)

I started out small, running the Classical Hour, a weekly bloc when the station managers threw caution to the wind and allowed classical music to be aired. I got the gig by being both a student in the music department and the only person on campus willing to take the position.

After showing off my chops by rocking the airwaves with Beethoven and Vivaldi, I finally broke through and got to host other shows, usually working with some of my friends. It was a lot of fun, but there was one show that should have turned out a lot better than it did. It was Super Bowl Sunday, and my co-host and I decided to put together a big show to lure an audience – something larger than the roughly zero people who listened to us in the first place.

Of course, nobody was going to listen to us during the game, so we set up a big halftime show. My friend managed to snag some free stuff to give away, and we put posters all around campus. The stage was set. All we had to do was put on an exciting show, give away prizes, and take advantage of the ratings bonanza to let students know our awesome show was on every Sunday night. It couldn't fail.

So here's how it failed. The second quarter ended. My co-host and I came right on the air, filled with excitement and ready for our first big giveaway; it was probably just a crappy t-shirt, but never underestimate the appeal of free stuff to a college student. We asked a simple trivia question and told people to call in to win. Sure enough, the lines lit up. People were listening! Success!

I picked up the first line, heard the correct answer, and awarded the first prize. That should have been it. All I had to say was “Congratulations and thanks for listening,” and the show would go on! Instead, I went with: “Can we play something for you?”

We were already limited in time, and we needed to make every minute count. Yet something inside of me decided: let's take requests! The caller paused for a moment, and said, “Sure – how about Stairway to Heaven?” Eager to please and clearly incapable of thinking, I said, “okay!” I cued the song up without my co-host having any idea what was going on. So, when the song we were playing ended, I fired up an eight-minute song that does a slow burn for the first seven.

As the opening strain began, the reality of the situation struck my co-host and she turned her head in my direction. I don't recall if she actually said, “what the heck are you doing?” or if that was merely how I interpreted the stare of death shooting out from her face. Either way, eight agonizing minutes later, halftime was over, the game was back on, and any chance we had of winning a repeat audience faded into oblivion.

Admittedly, this hardly qualifies as my biggest regret in life – it probably isn't even in the top fifty. Still, it feels good to get it off my chest. To my co-host, I offer a belated apology. If only I could go back and do it over...

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